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How to Stand Up for Yourself Without Feeling Like a Jerk

How to Stand Up for Yourself Without Feeling Like a Jerk

People often get the idea of assertiveness wrong. It’s not being aggressive, or mean, or pushy.

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3 Secrets for Silencing Your Inner Critic

3 Secrets for Silencing Your Inner Critic

“I’m no good at this.” “I’ll never be able to raise that kind of money.”

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How to Network Like a Pro–Even If You’re Shy, Introverted, or Really Just Hate Doing It

How to Network Like a Pro–Even If You’re Shy, Introverted, or Really Just Hate Doing It

The ability to network – to develop contacts and personal connections with a variety of people who might be helpful to you and your career – is a critical skill for any of us.

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2017: The Year to Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

2017: The Year to Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

You’d like to contribute to discussions at your company, but you can never get a word in edgewise. 

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How to Change the Subject (and Avoid Heartburn) at the Holiday Dinner Table

How to Change the Subject (and Avoid Heartburn) at the Holiday Dinner Table

It’s been several weeks now since the election, and no matter which side of the aisle you’re on, you’re probably exhausted from all the election coverage, the social media blitz, and the uncomfortable situations you may have been in with colleagues, friends, and, especially, family who, to your frustration and perhaps disbelief, supported the other side!

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4 Key Mistakes When Making an Apology

4 Key Mistakes When Making an Apology

When I was growing up, one of my favorite television shows was Happy Days, and my favorite character on that show was Arthur Herbert Fonzarelli — or “The Fonz” — who was the epitome of cool.

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A Ray of Hope

A Ray of Hope

Donald Trump is the President of the United States.  And it’s sent shockwaves through tens of millions of Americans, who never thought they’d hear those words. 

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When it’s Worth Having a Meeting Before a Meeting

When it’s Worth Having a Meeting Before a Meeting

Imagine the following scenario: You’re the president of a division of a Fortune 500 company and you’ve recently been tapped to run a crucial new initiative at the firm.

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Reinventing the Feedback Sandwich

Reinventing the Feedback Sandwich

One of the most challenging parts of becoming a manager or a leader is delivering feedback. 

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